15 little pleasures to indulge in solo to feel good
Sometimes all it takes is a little pleasure to turn an ordinary day into a memorable moment. Taking time for yourself is far from selfish: it’s essential for recharging your batteries and cultivating a good mood. According to Statistics Canada, nearly 60% of men say they don’t have enough time for themselves. Yet there are a thousand and one ways to enjoy life on your own, without ruining or complicating your life.
Sometimes all it takes is a little pleasure to turn an ordinary day into a memorable moment. Taking time for yourself is far from selfish: it's essential for recharging your batteries and cultivating a good mood. According to Statistics Canada, nearly 60% of men say they don't have enough time for themselves. Yet there are a thousand and one ways to enjoy life on your own, without ruining or complicating your life. Whether you want to boost your morale, take care of your looks or simply break the routine, here are 15 concrete ideas for doing yourself good, alone, here and now. Ready to get inspired and spice up your day?
1. Treat yourself to a home massage
You don't need a luxury spa to relax! Invest in a heated massage oil or massage roller to relieve tension. According to the Canadian Massage Therapy Association, 72% of men experience an improvement in well-being after a self-massage. Put on a relaxing playlist, dim the lights and treat yourself to 20 minutes of pure bliss. Your back will thank you.
2. Explore new online encounters
Want to spice up your solo evenings? Try Adult Friend Finder for chatting, flirting and more. Over 100 million users worldwide prove that virtual adventure is winning over more and more men. It's the perfect opportunity to get out of your comfort zone, without pressure, and have fun in total discretion.
3. Testing a new grooming routine
Change your look by trying out a new perfume, moisturizer or beard oil. According to a L'Oréal study, 68% of men feel more confident after taking care of themselves. Take advantage of this moment to pamper yourself in front of the mirror, try a different haircut or trim your beard with precision. A small gesture that boosts your self-esteem.
4. Ordering a high-tech gadget
There's nothing like a new technological toy to reawaken enthusiasm! Whether it's a Bluetooth speaker, a connected watch or wireless headphones, the pleasure of opening a package is ageless. Sales of gadgets for men jumped by 25% in 2023. Treat yourself to that little geeky pleasure that will make your life easier or your hobbies even more fun.
5. Treat yourself to a home-delivered meal
Order your favorite dish, sit back and enjoy every bite guilt-free. According to Uber Eats, 41% of men treat themselves to a solo meal at least once a week. It's an opportunity to discover a new address or revisit a classic. Add a local craft beer to complete the experience.
6. A gaming session
There's nothing like a gaming evening to unwind. Whether you're a fan of FIFA, Call of Duty or retro games, treat yourself to an uninterrupted session. According to the Entertainment Software Association, 59% of men regularly play games to relax. Put your phone on airplane mode, slip on your headset and immerse yourself in your favorite world.
7. Take a hot bubble bath
A hot bath is luxury for everyone. Add bath salts or an effervescent bomb for a spa-like experience. Studies show that taking a hot bath reduces stress and improves sleep quality. Let yourself be carried away by the warmth, close your eyes and forget the outside world for a moment.
8. Treat yourself to a stylish accessory
A leather bracelet, an elegant watch or a new pair of sunglasses: accessories make all the difference. According to Statista, 35% of Québécois men buy at least one fashion accessory every season. Treat yourself to something that reflects your personality and boosts your style every day.
9. Discover an inspiring new podcast
Put on your headphones and discover a motivating podcast on personal development, finance or sports. According to Edison Research, 48% of men listen to podcasts every week. It's the perfect way to learn, escape and find new sources of inspiration, all from the comfort of your own home.
10. Treat yourself with a toy for adults
Why not explore new pleasures on your own? Sales of male sex toys are expected to grow by 30% in Canada by 2023. Treat yourself to a moment of intimacy and discovery, without taboos or judgment.
11. Introduction to guided meditation
Download a meditation app and let yourself be guided for 10 minutes. According to the Université de Montréal, meditation reduces anxiety and improves concentration in 62% of practicing men. Make yourself comfortable, close your eyes and concentrate on your breathing. A little ritual that changes everything, especially after a busy day.
12. A quick workout
No need to spend two hours at the gym! A 20-minute HIIT practice is enough to boost energy and release endorphins. According to ParticipACTION, 54% of men prefer short, intense sessions. Put on your sneakers, put on a motivating playlist and sweat for pleasure, not performance.
13. Test a new hair care product
Take care of your hair with a nourishing mask or specialized shampoo. Men's hair care is growing by 18% in Quebec. Take the opportunity to try this innovative product that restores strength and shine to your hair. A simple gesture that makes all the difference in front of the mirror.
14. Treat yourself to a drive
Climb aboard, put on your favorite playlist and hit the open road. According to CAA-Quebec, 67% of men find that driving alone helps clear their head. Whether in the city or the country, enjoy the scenery and the feeling of freedom. Sometimes, a full tank of gas is all it takes to get away from it all.
15. Home movie night
Turn your living room into a movie theater: popcorn, plaid and a cult film. According to Netflix, 53% of men prefer to watch a film alone to relax. Choose a classic or a new one, turn off the lights and immerse yourself in the atmosphere. It's the perfect simple pleasure to end the day in style.