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Why you shouldn’t gift a puppy for Christmas

Puppies are beyond adorable. So, giving one as a present is sure to make an impact, right? As much as gifting a puppy will make the holidays unforgettable, it’s often at the expense of the dog. Plus, as fulfilling as dog ownership can be, it’s not a decision you should take lightly or make for somebody else. Here’s why you shouldn’t gift a puppy for Christmas and what you can do instead.

Dogs require a serious commitment of time and money

Puppies are a huge responsibility. A dog means a significant commitment of time and energy—from the basics like house training and obedience to meeting exercise needs with daily walks. Before you get a puppy for your family or gift one to somebody else, it’s critical that you guarantee they will meet the responsibility of dog ownership for the pet’s lifetime.

Dogs are also expensive. According to the Ontario Veterinary Medical Association, the average cost of a puppy is over $4,500 a year. And the annual cost of an adult dog is around $3,700. So even though you are absorbing the purchase or adoption price of the puppy, is your gift recipient ready to take on all those other expenses? Your generous gift might not be so generous after all.

Choose a dog that fits your lifestyle

Whether you intend for the dog to join your household or somebody else’s, you must match the breed and personality to the new owner’s lifestyle. A busy herding breed might be perfect for an outdoor enthusiast, whereas a laid-back lap dog might be someone else’s ideal pet. Or maybe an older dog who is already house trained is a better match than a rambunctious pup. Because it’s so important to match the dog to the owner, you should never choose somebody else’s dog for them. And if you’re gifting the puppy for Christmas to a member of your immediate family, everybody in the family should be part of the selection process.

The holidays can be too much for dogs

The holidays are a busy and sometimes stressful time of year, and a new pet requires attention and routine while they adapt to their new home. Many people can’t provide that kind of stability amid holiday cheer. Plus, all the festive sights, sounds, smells, and visitors can overwhelm a new pet. And we can’t forget to mention the extra holiday dangers such as toxic foods, candles, and ornaments. Consider waiting for a quieter time of year when your family or the gift recipient can focus on their new furry family member.

A better way to gift a dog

So, with all this in mind, how can you surprise somebody with a more suitable gift? Consider dog-themed items such as a stuffed animal in the likeness of a child’s favourite breed, paw print earrings, or a graphic t-shirt with dog images. What about a subscription to a dog magazine? Or you can donate to an animal shelter or rescue organization in the person’s name.

If the recipient has agreed to dog ownership and you’ve chosen a more appropriate time to pick the puppy, you can still give a holiday present. Wrap a few books about how to choose a puppy or train a dog. Put a bow on a collar and leash. Or you could even pre-pay the adoption fee at the shelter or rescue, then help the gift recipient choose their dog later on.

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Cottage Life

Why you shouldn’t gift a puppy for Christmas

Puppies are beyond adorable. So, giving one as a present is sure to make an impact, right? As much as gifting a puppy will make the holidays unforgettable, it’s often at the expense of the dog. Plus, as fulfilling as dog ownership can be, it’s not a decision you should take lightly or make for somebody else. Here’s why you shouldn’t gift a puppy for Christmas and what you can do instead.

Dogs require a serious commitment of time and money

Puppies are a huge responsibility. A dog means a significant commitment of time and energy—from the basics like house training and obedience to meeting exercise needs with daily walks. Before you get a puppy for your family or gift one to somebody else, it’s critical that you guarantee they will meet the responsibility of dog ownership for the pet’s lifetime.

Dogs are also expensive. According to the Ontario Veterinary Medical Association, the average cost of a puppy is over $4,500 a year. And the annual cost of an adult dog is around $3,700. So even though you are absorbing the purchase or adoption price of the puppy, is your gift recipient ready to take on all those other expenses? Your generous gift might not be so generous after all.

Choose a dog that fits your lifestyle

Whether you intend for the dog to join your household or somebody else’s, you must match the breed and personality to the new owner’s lifestyle. A busy herding breed might be perfect for an outdoor enthusiast, whereas a laid-back lap dog might be someone else’s ideal pet. Or maybe an older dog who is already house trained is a better match than a rambunctious pup. Because it’s so important to match the dog to the owner, you should never choose somebody else’s dog for them. And if you’re gifting the puppy for Christmas to a member of your immediate family, everybody in the family should be part of the selection process.

The holidays can be too much for dogs

The holidays are a busy and sometimes stressful time of year, and a new pet requires attention and routine while they adapt to their new home. Many people can’t provide that kind of stability amid holiday cheer. Plus, all the festive sights, sounds, smells, and visitors can overwhelm a new pet. And we can’t forget to mention the extra holiday dangers such as toxic foods, candles, and ornaments. Consider waiting for a quieter time of year when your family or the gift recipient can focus on their new furry family member.

A better way to gift a dog

So, with all this in mind, how can you surprise somebody with a more suitable gift? Consider dog-themed items such as a stuffed animal in the likeness of a child’s favourite breed, paw print earrings, or a graphic t-shirt with dog images. What about a subscription to a dog magazine? Or you can donate to an animal shelter or rescue organization in the person’s name.

If the recipient has agreed to dog ownership and you’ve chosen a more appropriate time to pick the puppy, you can still give a holiday present. Wrap a few books about how to choose a puppy or train a dog. Put a bow on a collar and leash. Or you could even pre-pay the adoption fee at the shelter or rescue, then help the gift recipient choose their dog later on.

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What you should know before giving a pet as a holiday gift

Sure the idea looks exciting on TV and in movies, when the brightly wrapped box starts to move and make noises, the lid lifts and a cute little animal pokes its head out. Most likely that adorable kitten or puppy will chew shoes and electronics and use the home as its personal toilet. So think twice before you give a pet as a gift this Christmas.

Rule #1: No surprises
Pets, particularly very young pets, do not make good surprise gifts. Unfortunately, many animal shelters become overloaded with unwanted animals once Christmas day is over and reality sinks in. To avoid this sad outcome, experts recommend that you are up front about the potential new furry family member.

“The holidays are always a good time for people looking for pets, and what we discourage is surprising somebody with a pet,” says Don Simons from the Regina Humane Society. In an interview with Global News, Simons notes that wanting a pet is quite different from the reality of being prepared to properly care for a pet. “What we look for in a family that’s looking for a pet is, of course, somebody who, they not only want that animal, but they have the ability to take care of that animal.”

Rule #2: Gift of a lifetime
Can you honestly say that the recipient of the gift is in a good position to take care of a pet for the next ten to 15 years? Aside from allergies, the other problem about giving a pet as a gift – especially to children – is that once the novelty wears off, the adults of the household will most likely assume responsibility for the life of the pet. If there are too many other commitments, such as work, travel, or children, you might not have the time available. So, keep this in mind before getting a pet “for the kids.”

Baby, it’s cccold outside
One of the most practical reasons for not giving a pet as a holiday gift is the season. In northern climes, winter is absolutely the worst time to be housetraining a puppy. Bitterly cold temperatures, snow, salt, slush, and freezing rain can all prevent you from properly training your pet, or providing them with enough exercise. If you’re smart, you’ll choose a cat or an older dog that is already housebroken, or wait until spring or summer when you want to be spending lots of time outdoors.

Choose an older pet and save a life
Giving a pet as a gift is not so much an issue if you select an older pet, hopefully one that his already housetrained. You can save a life by rescuing an older shelter pet; you’ll not only provide them with a good home, but also be giving a special gift of companionship. So, if you’re looking to rescue an older pet, visit your local humane society or petfinder.com

Naughty or nice?
Be sure to think twice about giving a pet this holiday season. The absolute last thing you would want is for your gift to be “returned,” and eventually destroyed. If you love pets, don’t give one at Christmastime unless you’re absolutely sure that the recipient is prepared. Even then, you might want to have a Plan B.

When in doubt, a gift certificate, photograph, or pet accessory like a leash or food dish can indicate that this gift will arrive in the spring. That way you can take your time to discuss expectations, plan properly, and ensure a wonderful welcome for the latest addition to the family.

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Hands-on dads give kids an advantage

Fathers who actively engage in raising their children can help make their offspring smarter and better behaved, according to Canadian researchers at Concordia University.

Published in the Canadian Journal of Behavioural Science, the long-term study examined how fathers can positively influence the development of kids through hands-on parenting.

“Regardless of whether fathers lived with their children, their ability to set appropriate limits and structure their children’s behavior, positively influenced problem-solving and decreased emotional problems, such as sadness, social withdrawal and anxiety,” said co-author Erin Pougnet, a PhD candidate.

A total of 138 children and their parents took part in the study and were assessed by researchers in three separate sessions, at age 3 to 5, and again at 9 to 13 years old.

The findings should encourage governments to formulate policies that encourage increased and positive forms of contact between children and their fathers, such as parental leave and parenting classes that emphasize the role of fathers.

 

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A new view of baby’s interactions

A study conducted by Psychologist Daniel Messinger, from the University of Miami, has uncovered that a baby’s social interactions are not simply driven by the here and now. Infants seek to create historical footprints via fvisual engagement, and contrary to popular belief, their past interactions impact present actions.

In examining 13 infants interact face-to-face with their mothers, Messinger and his collaborators found that longer gazes tended to follow longer gazes and shorter gazes followed shorter gazes. Over 208 interactions were monitored with infants four to 24 weeks of age.

“infants are showing ongoing interest that is independent of interest in other things,"  says Messinger,  "[They’re] coordinating these two patterns of interest." 

Complete findings from this study have been published under the title, Are You Interested, Baby? Young Infants Exhibit Stable Patterns of Attention during Interaction in the journal, Infancy

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A new view of baby’s interactions

A study conducted by Psychologist Daniel Messinger, from the University of Miami, has uncovered that a baby’s social interactions are not simply driven by the here and now. Infants seek to create historical footprints via fvisual engagement, and contrary to popular belief, their past interactions impact present actions.

In examining 13 infants interact face-to-face with their mothers, Messinger and his collaborators found that longer gazes tended to follow longer gazes and shorter gazes followed shorter gazes. Over 208 interactions were monitored with infants four to 24 weeks of age.

“infants are showing ongoing interest that is independent of interest in other things,"  says Messinger,  "[They’re] coordinating these two patterns of interest." 

Complete findings from this study have been published under the title, Are You Interested, Baby? Young Infants Exhibit Stable Patterns of Attention during Interaction in the journal, Infancy